How to tell if someone's interested
This not only applies to male/female relationships but any relationships be it @ work, @ home, with "friends", etc. You can buy all sorts of books out there telling you to look for this and what to say blah blah blah but I'm gonna save you time and money and that is this, are you ready? Drum roll please....a tennis game. That's it!Let's use a conversation as an example, it's like a tennis game. If it's not, then one party is not interested. For pitching a sale, if the recipient never returns the ball in play, then he's not interested in the product. When meeting new people, if it's not a back and forth conversation, then that person is not interested. Last, it goes w/ male/female love interests as well. The only exception in this case is the guy must be the initiator and throw more than a few balls across the court, however, after throwing a basket worth and no returns only means one thing, move on to the next court:o)
I should start another Dr. Phil show:o)
posted by Mercy Now @ 7:57 PM
5 Comments:
Good advice. Much better then Dr. Phil~
actually, its better to throw the balls at several different directions and see where it's returned from.
and go there.
life has taught me:
there is the woman you love.
there is the woman who loves you.
if God is smiling on you, they are the same woman.
This assumes the other person isn't shy of course...
Gino, you have once again cracked me up. Twice, in the same post.
Mercy, interesting analogy. May I ask what inspired it?
Gino gives great advice!
PB, I read that from an article dealing w/ successful communication and the quote was "A conversation is like a tennis game".
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